Perhaps I will hold off on this request then. Maybe when I get further in my knowledge and research. I need to find out more about which church and who the priests are. Perhaps I will get lucky and be related! Or, perhaps a mention of Sr Elena Aiello in my family tree - she was made blessed by Pope John Paul II (first step to sainthood) and is very popular there. I would think the priest may at least give my request a second thought if I mentioned that the person I am requesting the record for is a cousin of a saint. "Angelina Napolitano, daughter of Costantino Napolitano and Pasqualina Aiello (the aunt of Sr. Elena Aiello)" Would that be unethical?